Common Refusals: My Principles and Personal Choices
On Quora, there's one common request that tends to make my list of refusals: strangers asking for my personal contact information. It's a frequent occurrence, and each time, I politely refuse. This policy applies, and I even went as far as publicly addressing my readers and followers about this matter to avoid any misunderstandings.
Respecting Personal Space: Not Sharing My Contact
The reasons behind my refusal are complex. While I've been known as an eccentric genius, providing my contact information is not necessary for the assistance I offer. The establishment, as it were, has often stripped away options that make such interactions less personal, leading me to maintain my privacy.
Key Points:
Strangers requesting personal contact. Publicly sharing my stance on privacy. Why personal contact is not needed for professional assistance.Ethical Concerns: Catch and Release Fishing
Another common refusal of mine is related to a more ethical issue. Ever since I discovered the concept of catch and release fishing, I have found it morally questionable. While I do enjoy eating fish and going fishing, the idea of rescuing fish only to release them back into their environment doesn't sit well with me. I'm not judgmental, but I do believe it is an important issue to discuss.
Key Points:
Personal enjoyment of fishing. Morality of catch and release. Why I choose to abstain, despite my love for fishing.Digital Privacy: Avoiding Social Media
A decision that reflects my principles regarding my digital life is the avoidance of certain social media platforms like Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram. I believe it is essential to set healthy boundaries and not conform to every digital expectation. Joining these platforms doesn't align with my lifestyle, and I'm perfectly fine with that.
Key Points:
Why I avoid certain social media platforms. Importance of maintaining personal privacy online. Benefits of self-imposed boundaries on digital interactions.Respecting Boundaries: Maintaining Respect for Privacy
Respect for personal boundaries is paramount in my life. I follow a clear rule: not showcasing my life to unknown people. This approach enables me to lead a more peaceful and private existence. Just because someone chooses to share their life online, it doesn't mean I have to follow suit. Each person should be free to make their choices regarding privacy.
Key Points:
Privacy in the digital age. The importance of not showcasing personal life to unknowns. Respecting and maintaining personal boundaries.Moral Choices: Steering Clear of Mating Practices
From a young age, I have made a point to avoid topics such as describing or engaging in certain sexual activities. This doesn't mean I’m asexual, but rather that I don’t find these topics titillating, enjoying more spiritual and emotional connections with women rather than physical ones. My approach to relationships is more holistic, and these practices simply don't align with my values.
Key Points:
Aversion to discussions involving personal preferences in mating. Moral stance on certain practices. Focusing on emotional and spiritual connection.Final Thoughts: Refusal as a Principle
While it might be tempting to label my refusals as "never do," the truth is more nuanced. These decisions are driven by my principles, values, and needs. I don't refuse everything, but I do refuse what I believe doesn't align with my personal ethos. Whether it's privacy, ethics, or personal boundaries, making principled decisions is crucial in leading a fulfilling life.
Key Points:
Nuanced approach to personal refusals. Incorporating principles in decision-making. Unwavering commitment to personal values.These refusals, while they may seem common to you, are far from arbitrary. They represent a deep-seated commitment to my principles and values. If you relate to these points and wish to adopt similar principles in your life, feel free to share your thoughts or experiences in the comments below.
Remember, Do Not Tug on Superman's Cape, Spit into the Wind, Pull the Lone Ranger's Mask, or Mess Around with Jim.