Introduction

As a former member of BTS, I believe that the journey of a fan isn't just about fandom loyalty, but also about individual growth and personal satisfaction. From my perspective, understanding why some fans leave the ARMY as BTS members pursue their solo careers and personal commitments is essential.

The Transition and Fan Support

BTS has not disbanded, but the group's members are going through significant personal transitions. Some are embarking on individual projects, and mandatory military service in South Korea is also a part of their journey. This shift has led to a temporary hiatus, during which the fandom known as the ARMY continues to support the members in their various endeavors. However, as some fans grapple with this change, they may choose to leave the ARMY.

Creating Overcoming Challenges

some fans express concern that the group is making more English songs, and even when they do write in English, they don't write the lyrics themselves. However, it's important to remember that language is not a barrier to artistic expression. Artists, like BTS, create based on their experiences and emotions, regardless of the language they use. The core essence of their music and the connection fans perceive isn't dictated by language alone. BTS as creators understand that fans appreciate their work across languages and cultures.

Some fans believe that leaving the group is necessary because of certain behaviors or terms used by the group. However, we must consider the context of these interactions. Calling the fandom the "girlfriend" is often a lighthearted and playful term, not meant to be taken seriously. Fans and the group understand this in a context of humor and mutual support. If this term bothers you deeply, it's a reflection of your own emotional investment in the relationship.

Abandoning Love and Commitment

The decision to leave a fandom is often complicated and personal. Some fans form their love for BTS due to initial attraction to a particular member, and then, as they become more informed, their respect for the entire group grows. However, fans join the ARMY of their own will, not because BTS reached out to them. Joining with a sense of comfort and acceptance is a powerful bond, but it also means that when you leave, you must personally evaluate your reasons.

Saying 'I don't feel the attachment anymore' is a valid reason, but it's crucial to recognize that true love and dedication involve a deep emotional connection that persists even in changing circumstances. If your primary reason for leaving is the lack of emotional attachment, it's a radical shift from the initial connection that brought you into the ARMY.

Maturity and Fanhood

Maturity is not defined by age, but by experience. Fans of all ages, whether teenagers or adults, carry their own maturity and understanding. Calling someone immature is a disservice to their personal growth and the value they bring to the fandom. It's essential to recognize that all fans, regardless of age, have the capacity for depth and understanding.

Conclusion

Ultimately, the decision to leave the ARMY is a complex one, influenced by personal feelings and experiences. While BTS members are pursuing their solo careers and individual journeys, the ARMY continues to support and cherish them for who they are as artists and individuals. Fans should evaluate their reasons for leaving carefully, reflecting on the true essence of the connection they have with the group.

For those who feel strongly about their reasons, it's important to support each other with kindness and understanding. The journey of loving and supporting artists, and being supported in return, is a beautiful one. May we all continue to grow, learn, and evolve in our journeys together.